Showing posts with label social networking. Show all posts
Showing posts with label social networking. Show all posts

Thursday, May 30, 2013

Sex Jokes: Vice Ganda vs. Jessica Soho

Vice Ganda's recent sold-out concert at the SMART Araneta Coliseum last May 17 sure did establish this gay comedian as one of the country's top entertainers. But it could very well contribute to his downfall as well, IF AND  ONLY IF his fans will suddenly be enlightened of his vicious tongue and scathing humor. While most people I know look forward to his Sunday late night show "Gandang Gabi Vice", I find the show rather repulsive as it becomes an avenue where people are shamed by Vice Ganda's wild jokes. Seeing his tactic to entertain at the expense of his victims, I cannot find it in my heart to patronize his show though I honestly admire him for his quick wit and frank retorts.

But then his jokes have gone too far. Through my Facebook newsfeed, I became aware of his terrible joke about Jessica Soho's weight and that if she becomes a sexy star, there should be a gang rape. This joke attacks the victim as a female and as an obese person, which if we really do think about it, also attacks all females and all fat people. I wonder how people can still laugh at such a joke.


A few days ago, Jessica Soho voiced out her opinion that rape is not a joke. No, she didn't lash out at Vice Ganda, considering her stature in the media industry as a multi-awarded broadcast journalist, as most celebrities are wont to do. Instead, she just reacted against the joke itself, which perhaps made people think about the underlying meanings, thus gaining the support of netizens who promptly made the issue a hot topic in cyberspace. For that, my respect for Jessica Soho has multiplied ten thousandfold. She knows how to wield her influence in a subtle way, rallying the people on to her side to condemn the jokes made, and subsequently, to think twice about patronizing someone as unfeeling and unsympathetic to rape victims and fat people as Vice Ganda.

On second thought, Filipinos are known to be harsh critics of people's physique. In a conversation with an offiicemate, when I remarked at how Filipinos tend to always find something bad to say about another person in terms of physical appearance, she agrees and cites examples. For instance, she says, Filipinos add adjectives after a person's nickname, like X Kalbo, X Nano, X Panot, etc. Do we really need to take these physical characteristics as something to make fun of? Are we that shallow to find pleasure in finding fault in a person? Perhaps yes, because it makes us feel superior to other people. But then, as a  predominantly Catholic country, let me remind everyone that nobody's born perfect and before you criticize, take a look at the mirror first.

Thou hypocrite, first cast out the beam out of thine own eye; and then shalt thou see clearly to cast out the mote out of thy brother's eye. (Matthew 7:5) (from http://biblehub.com/matthew/7-5.htm)

Methinks Vice Ganda is insecure. Methinks he envies Jessica Soho for her achievements and for being a female, something he is denied to have. And this could have compelled him to do just what he did in the arena where he is king, on that stage in SMART Araneta Coliseum where he stood unopposed that night of May 17.

Wednesday, November 28, 2012

From Multiply 066: Damn Facebook!


Facebook--- I first heard of this social networking site when I was taking up French 30-31.Back then, all I knew was that FB is like Multiply and Friendster.

But before I rant about FB, here's a brief intro to my world of social networking sites.

I was in high school when the world was crazy about Friendster. My friends kept on prodding me to sign up for an account. I kept receiving invitations but I ignored all of them. Friendster, for me, promotes false friendship. I had read a lot about it on the newspapers, how people just add up other people regardless of whether they really are friends or not. Worse, most users add up complete strangers. And what for? Perhaps to let the world know how "friendly" they are. But all that is one big CRAP. It's like collecting friends. Then what? Do they really really become intimate friends? Fat chance.

And then came Multiply, with features that are suitable for the blogger in us. It took me a long time to see the benefits of blogging. I wasn't easily convinced but here I am, still an active Multiply user. I started to blog, my first posts were poems which i myself wrote. Later on, I was into reviews. It's not like I'm writing for people. No, I write for myself. (Still the self-centered girl that I am, ha!) The reviews section is where I store what I've read, watched or just about anything else. (My biggest indulgences are anime and books.) I post pics, but only for my contacts, and my contacts are, mind you, people whom I have talked to personally. It was only when my parents said yes to DSL that I was able to upload music and videos. Oh, and did I mention that I used Multiply to stalk my crushes? (evil laugh)

I would eventually create a Friendster account, to further stalk my crushes. But that's just that and nothing more. Well, I did post some poems on my bog there, too.

And then now there's FB. That darn FB.

The day my sister created an FB account was the beginning of HELL for me. Every night she would whine endlessly for me to let her play Cafe World. Stupid game. Now all I've been hearing of her lately is that she's got to play coz her <insert food> is ready to be served. It's got a BIG effect on her, to the point that she says her goal now is to become number 1 in that game. I'd just roll my eyes in disgust and at the same time, I feel sorry for her. She got caught up in a addictively fictitious world.

The worst thing is, when she plays on my laptop, everything slows down. I've been telling her numerous times before that FB might be using damn stalking programs but she won't hear the end of it, Never mind that my laptop turns into a turtle, just let her play. Damn it!

I've had it now, and my only recourse is to rant about that damnable abominable FB for coming into existence. Or better yet, I am so disappointed at my sister for turning into an FB zombie. HMPH!

Nov 16, '09 7:51 AM
for Miracle's friends and Miracle's family